Frequently asked questions.

​Are you available for full service ?

No. I am a professional BDSM provider. Sessions are centered on power exchange, kink, and fetish — not full sexual service or intercourse.


How should I contact you? What should I say in my message? 

When reaching out, please be respectful, professional, and clear. Introduce yourself, share your experience level, and outline your interests or the type of session you’re seeking. Confirm that you have reviewed my offerings and limits. First impressions matter — messages that are explicit, demanding, or careless will not receive a response. If you would like to express appreciation for my time and consideration, a thoughtful tribute is always welcome. While not required for initial contact, it is seen as a gesture of sincerity and respect.


Are all genders and sexualities welcome?

Yes. I welcome clients of all genders, sexual orientations, and identities. I believe in creating a safe, inclusive environment where all are respected and appreciated. Your experience, comfort, and consent are my top priority, regardless of your background or identity.


What does a typical session look like?

Every session is unique. After receiving your interests, limits, and session goals, I design a scene that reflects your desires within clearly defined boundaries. Communication and consent come first.



Do you offer online sessions or custom content?

Yes. I offer virtual domination via text, voice, or video, along with custom content including audio clips, fetish videos, and more. All content is created with care and professionalism.



What are your rates and how do I book?

My rates vary depending on the type and length of session. Visit the Booking section of this site for current pricing and instructions. If you are wishing to book a session that includes heavy play like anal, heavy impact or other things that will require additional fees which will be quoted to you  after submitting your enquiry.




Can I serve you long-term or become your submissive?

Possibly. Long-term dynamics are built on mutual trust and earned over time. If you're serious and respectful, this can be discussed after an initial session or period of interaction.


What fetishes or kinks do you specialize in?

I specialize in domination, bondage, impact play, humiliation, chastity, CBT, and a variety of fetishes including , latex, and worship scenarios. For a full list, please refer to the Interests section.


Can I meet you socially or outside of session time?

Yes. I offer social dates for those who wish to connect in a more relaxed, non-play setting. These are still professional engagements, and rates apply. Social time must be booked in advance and treated with the same respect as any session.



Do you allow photos or recordings during a session?

No. I do not permit recording, photography, or any form of content capture during our time together unless specifically negotiated and agreed upon in advance.


What should I do if I'm nervous or new to BDSM?

That’s perfectly okay. I welcome clients of all experience levels. Be honest about where you’re at, and we will start at a pace that feels comfortable. Communication and safety are always my priorities.

Can I book a session without filling out your form or giving personal information?

Yes you can email me submit2graves@gmail.com
or call Fetish house on 03 9544 9384